Episode 7

Our First Experience: The Plot Twist

Published on: 14th January, 2026

We went into our first experience looking for bi play and somehow ended up with a straight couple, a laugh track, and the universe actively testing us at every turn. From missed signals and awkward timing to a husband who hadn’t even told his wife he was talking to swingers, this night had full 90s sitcom energy. It was hot, chaotic, and wildly imperfect. Along the way, we touch on our very different jealousy styles compersion versus traditional jealousy and how we navigated it all together. Proof that sometimes the messiest beginnings make the best stories.

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**What We Talk About on this Podcast**

- Challenges and stigmas bisexual men face in the lifestyle

- How supportive partners play a crucial role in exploration and understanding

- Building a stronger, more open community together


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About the Podcast

United Bi Swinging: Bisexual Men in the Swinging Lifestyle
A podcast and community supporting bisexual men in swinging lifestyle and the partners who love them. Real stories, real connection, no shame. It's time to be united bi swinging.
Welcome to United Bi Swinging: Bisexual Men in the Swinging Lifestyle — a podcast and community created to support, normalize, and celebrate bisexual men and the people who love them.
Hosted by Rob and Ashley, a married and fully bisexual couple, we’re here to break the silence around male bisexuality in the swinging lifestyle. For too long, bi men have been hidden, misunderstood, or treated as taboo. We’re here to change that.
This is a space for single and married bi men, for their partners who stand beside them, and for anyone ready to explore open relationships with honesty, curiosity, and pride. Whether you’re coming out to your spouse, learning to understand your partner’s bisexuality, or simply looking for a place where you belong — you’re not alone.
We share real stories, open conversations, and raw truths about what it means to live authentically. Together, we’ll build a community of acceptance, encouragement, and understanding — one that helps others explore male bisexuality in a way that’s celebrated, not shamed.
We are here for you.
With you.
Because we see you, we understand you, and we believe you deserve to be seen.
It’s time to stop hiding.
It’s time to take pride.
It’s time to be United Bi Swinging.